v0.7.3-beta1: wg_substituted_total diagnostic counter

Instruments boringtun's encapsulate-substitution path (per-link and
daemon-wide lifetime counters): when a link has no current valid
WireGuard session, boringtun silently substitutes a handshake datagram
for real data with no visible error. Built after wg_rejected_total
(0.7.2) ruled out receive-side rejection as the cause of a real ~15%
TCP retransmission finding under load.